The Tower is a card of sudden and rapid changes that will leave you feeling abandoned, alone, and terrified. Although change is often a good thing, The Tower suggests that the change is not for the best. You may feel that you have little to no choice and that there is simply no escape from the destruction that is about to overtake you.
Like any major change, you will likely experience confusion, sadness, and a sense of loss. The Tower usually speaks of an unexpected and disruptive change in your life and indicates that you may not have much control over the course of the change and you must adapt accordingly. This is no cause for despair, merely a recognition that you have less control than you think you do. The changes happening to you must be taken as they come and most of all with grace because you must accept that you are powerless to change or avoid what is happening.
Often, it is not how you handle the situation, but how the situation affects you that counts. This card reminds us that when we feel powerless, what we really suffer worst is our sense and mindset of not being able to do anything.